Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Quotes..

I am not a big quote person, you know those people that can quote verses off the top of their head or they quote what some old famous person that has already died said.. Yeah they tend to annoy me.. 
I had a writing assignment my sophomore year and it had something to do with quotes either that or I was seriously just bored. But I ran into one that really spoke to me in the context of that current situation I was in. I roomed with my best friend from high school, I already had Tony i.e the boyfriend so I didn't need to go out and party or find someone. She on the other hand led a sheltered life all through high school to keep up her good girl image intentionally..So she went and partied while I refused.. Needless to say we went our separate paths but it didn't go down peacefully.. just super ugly. Essentially I walked into our room one day to see her moving, I don't know what I said because at that point we weren't even talking. From my stand point she wasn't a friend anymore because she would make plans with me and then totally blow me off at the last second. Saying she needed to go hang out with so and so. A best friend doesn't do that.. So I got tired of it and stopped being there for her.
I don't tolerate being walked on..


So the quote that applied to that context I think came from Martin Luther King Jr. I also happened to write it down in BIG letters and post on my half of the room.. Could have been why she moved out too.. But I looked at this quote every day and it brought calm over me essentially I didn't feel like punching her in the face anymore.. 




"the problem with hatred is half the people you hate don't know and the other half don't care. the only person truly consumed with hatred is you." 




After this happened with her I have started to see the importance of having few friends that you can trust, I am so tired of making a friend just to find out they are selfish and shallow people. I have enough insecurities myself and I don't want to listen to others because I don't push mine on anyone but me. I've attempted at making friends here but it just back fires in my face. It definitely makes me appreciate tony more because he is my 
best friend.





So my last blog.. I am actually kind of sad about it.. Anyone have any suggestions on what else I should blog about? I might keep going on the same theme I do get little weird ideas in my head I could rant about. I've thought about doing outfits for when I go out shopping or something but I don't know I don't think I dress that cute haha :) 


Day 1. What do you find most challenging in your life right now?
Day 2. What makes you uniquely you?
Day 3. 
A photo that makes you happy
Day 4. Style 31. Post a pic of you in your favorite outfit.
Day 5. Write a blog thanking someone who has made your heart come alive.
Day 6. Your m
ost embarrassing moment
Day 7. Whats your most prized materialistic possession?
Day 8. Have a beauty secret (e.g. hair tip, make up tip)? Share, please!
Day 9. 
What virtues do you value in yourself? 
Day 10. 
What are some of your favorite make up products? 

Day 11. Post a recipe. Or if you don't cook, try a new recipe and write about how it turned out (pictures please!).
Day 12. Write about what wears you out as a woman.
Day 13. 
A Good Self Tanner..

Day 14. What do you wish for?
Day 15. Write about your dogs :)

Day 16. 
If you could, what would you tell yourself before you graduated high school?
Day 17. Write about 3 things that make you happy.
Day 18. Post and outfit pic..
Day 19. Write about your significant other
Day 20. Write about school and why you love it or hate it.
Day 21. Write about your most vivid childhood memory. Post a picture of you taken over ten years ago.
Day 22. 
What did you do today?
Day 23. 
Who's your celebrity look alike?

Day 24. What is God teaching you presently?
Day 25. Style 31. Post a pic of your favorite comfy clothes.
Day 26. What do you hope your grandchildren will say about you someday when you are gone?

Day 27. Who are your favorite bloggers?
Day 28. Write about your insecurities as a woman.
Day 29. Your day, in great detail
Day 30. 
What do you think is going to happen to you after you die?
Day 31. Your favorite quote
 

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